When someone dies, one of the things that families often want to do is take their loved one’s ashes abroad. It can be a beautiful way to remember them by taking them on the adventures they didn’t get to go on in life, and/or to spread their ashes in a place that was special to them.
There are other options for keeping a loved one close to you when travelling which may work for you, such as using some of their ashes to make a beautiful piece of jewellery to carry with you on your travels.
Taking a loved one’s ashes abroad can also be a complicated process. Here are some tips on how to take a loved one’s ashes on a trip, as well as some of the practicalities and logistics you need to consider.
Documentation for Taking Ashes into/out of Countries
The first thing you need to do is check the documentation requirements for taking ashes into and out of the UK and the countries you’re visiting.
This can be a complicated process, as each country has different requirements. For example, some countries may require that you have a death certificate or cremation certificate, while others may not.
It’s important to do your research in advance so that you know what documents you need. As a general rule, you should have at the least the following documentation:
The official death certificate
Cremation certificate
A letter from the crematorium/funeral home stating that the container or urn contains only the cremated remains of the named person
Each destination country has its own set of rules and regulations about receiving cremated remains, which you must adhere to.
Preparing the Ashes
Consider whether you would like to take all of the ashes, or just a portion. Talk to your funeral director about your plans. They can help you with the paperwork and will be able to tell you what type of container is best for transporting ashes.
Your funeral director will also be able to seal the container so that it meets the requirements of the transport you intend to take, and the countries you’re visiting.
Most airlines will require that ashes are kept in a secure container. To allow for a clear view of the ashes during security inspections, the container must be made of scannable material. Wood, plastic, and biodegradable materials are some of the suggested materials. Avoid using stone, metal, or granite containers. If the contents of the container or urn cannot be seen clearly, it will not be permitted through airport security.
I would strongly recommend keeping all of the paperwork with the urn itself and not stored separately.
Transporting the Ashes
Once you have all the necessary documentation and your loved one’s ashes are prepared, you need to figure out how to transport the ashes. However you are travelling, you will need to make sure the ashes are securely sealed in a container.
If you’re flying, you will need to check with the airline in advance to find out their policies on transporting ashes. Airlines differ, but many require advance notice in order to accept ashes. Some airlines request specific labeling of the urn and proof of death and cremation, such as death certificates.
Out of respect for the deceased, airport security officers in the UK will not (they are legally not allowed to) open the urn even if you ask them to. Do make your wishes known regarding opening or not opening the urn at security in other countries that you visit.
Some airlines allow you to carry the ashes on the plane with you, while others require that you send them as cargo. I would strongly suggest that you request that you are able to take the ashes with you on the plane, imagine how you’d feel if they got lost in transit?
Scattering the Ashes
Once you’ve arrived at your destination, it’s time to scatter the ashes, if that is what you have chosen to do.
If you’re scattering the ashes in a public place, it’s always best to check with the authorities first to make sure that it’s allowed.
When you’re ready to scatter the ashes, there are a few things to keep in mind.
First, make sure that everyone who is going to be involved in the scattering knows what to do.
Second, be aware of the wind direction. You don’t want the ashes blowing back into your face.
And finally, take your time. This is a special moment and one that you will always remember.
I hope these tips have been helpful. Scattering a loved one’s ashes can be a beautiful and healing experience.
With a little planning, it can also be a relatively easy process. If you have any questions or need more information, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. I’m always happy to help however I can.
Wishing you peace on your journey.
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